
1.0 The Statement
Psalm 13 was written by David but it is not possible to establish with certainty the Period of David’s Life to which Psalm 13 belongs. Psalm 13 is the Cry of the Person in distress because the Cry of “How long?” is mentioned four times. Luther says, “This is the Prayer full of the sighing and groaning of an afflicted heart in the hour of darkness, and almost overwhelmed, under that darkness, with the extreme of grief and sorrow, and driven to the greatest strait of mind.”
Psalm 13 could have been written during the days of his (David’s) Persecution by King Saul, who made 15 attempts on David’s Life. Or Psalm 13 could be the reflection of the sad days of his (David’s) Exile from his rebellious son, Absalom.
Many of God’s People, in every Age, could associate themselves with David in Psalm 13 – We have been brought to the limit of despair and sorrow. Spurgeon remarks: “If the Reader has never yet found occasion to use the language of this brief ode (verses), he will do so ere long, if he be a man after God’s Own Heart (Acts 13:22b; 1Samuel 13:14).” Psalm 13 could be divided into three Sections:
- The First Section is Psalm 13:1-2 is all Mourning.
- The Second Section is Psalm 13:3-4 to do with Praying.
- The Third Section Psalm 13:5-6 concludes Psalm 13 with Singing.
The three Pairs of Verses {Psalm 13:1-2; Psalm 13:3-4; Psalm 13:5-6) climb up from the depths of despair (Psalm 13:1-2) to the fine vantage-point of Confidence and Hope (Psalm 13:3-6).
If the Path is Prayer (Psalm 13:3), the Sustaining Energy is the Faith expressed in Psalm 13:5. The Prospect from the Summit (Psalm 13:5) is exhilarating, and the retrospect (Psalm 13:6) is overwhelming. There is in Psalm 13 is the basic reversal in Attitude: (1) From Complaint to Trust; (2) From Desolation to Delight; (3) From Grief to Joy; (4) From Distress to Rest.
This Change of Perspective Characterises not only Psalm 13, but almost one-third of all the Psalms (Psalms 3; Psalm 5; Psalm 6; Psalm 7; Psalm 13; Psalm 17; Psalm 22; Psalm 25; Psalm 26; Psalm 27; Psalm 28; Psalm 31; Psalm 35; Psalm 36; Psalm 38; Psalm 39; Psalm 40; Psalm 42; Psalm 43; Psalm 51; Psalm 54; Psalm 55; Psalm 56; Psalm 57; Psalm 59; Psalm 61; Psalm 64; Psalm 69; Psalm 70; Psalm 71; Psalm 86; Psalm 88; Psalm 102; Psalm 108; Psalm 109; Psalm 130; Psalm 139; Psalm 140; Psalm 141; Psalm 142; Psalm 143). Such Psalms are usually called Psalms of Individual Lament. We can best understand Psalm 13 by considering it in terms of these elements, or constitutive Parts.
Murphy Writes: “In the three Couplets of Psalm 13, we have an Expostulation {Objection}, the Petition, and the Confession of Faith. It reminds us of the time when David said in his heart, “I shall now perish one day by the hand of Saul (1Samuel 27:1);” but he (David) continues, “His (David’s) cry rises from sadness into hope.” (Psalm 13:5-6).
Superscription – “To the Chief Musician.” Fifty-five Psalms are committed to the Care of the Chief Musician. The first is in Psalm 4. It was David himself who introduced Music and Song into the National Worship (Tabernacle of, and the Chief Musician appears to have been the Director of Music with the Special Collection of Psalms in his care (1Chronicles 6:31,32; 1Chronicles 15:16-22; 1Chronicles 25:1,7).
1.1 The Silence of God
Psalms 13:1-2 “How long will You forget me, O LORD? Forever? How long will You hide Your face from me? How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart daily? How long shall mind Enemy be exalted over me? – Psalm 13:1-2, David, “the Man after God’s Heart” (Acts 13:22b; 1Samuel 13:14b) revealed his deepest feelings, in God’s Presence. David, in Psalm 13:1-2, inspired by the Holy Spirit, admits his own experience of God’s Silence.
- Psychologists and Counsellors tell us that unacknowledged and therefore unresolved feelings lie at the heart of a vast array of behavioural problems, even among the Christians.
- Acknowledging how we feel, then, is not wrong. It is the place to start. So, the first step in dealing with the experience of “God’s Silence” is to acknowledge it. This David does in Psalms 13:1-2.
God’s Silence – Psalms 13:1a “How long will You forget me, O LORD? Forever?” I have never heard anyone talk about experiencing God’s Silence. But as I read the Bible – especially the Psalms – I am convinced that it is not uncommon for Christians to pass through such experience. David candidly revealed his deepest feelings. David, the man after God’s own heart (Acts 13:33b; 1Samuel 13:14b), in the Psalm inspired by the Holy Spirit Himself, admits his own experience of God’s Silence. The central body of a typical Psalm of Lament consists of the Complaint and the Petition, and Resolute. Either of which can come first and both of which are oft repeated. In Psalm 13 the Complaint comes first as the Psalmist pours out his distress “How long, O Lord? Will Thou forget me for ever?”
The Debate – In a famous debate between theologians Paul Tillich and Karl Barth, Tillich claimed that our theology should be an “answering theology.” This means that the world asks the questions which theology then answers. For Tillich the issue was one of relevance.
1.1.1 Addressing “Felt- Needs” –
Psychologists teach us that we should address “felt needs.” Psychologists state that honestly addressing “felt needs” is important because it:
- Builds Trust: When you acknowledge and address people’s genuine concerns, they feel heard and understood.
- Increases Engagement: Addressing felt needs shows that an Individual values and respects Others’ thoughts and feelings.
- Fosters Loyalty: When People feel understood and supported, they are more likely to remain Loyal and Committed.
- Promotes Effective Solutions: By understanding the root causes of concerns, an Individual develops targeted solutions that meet actual needs.
- Reduces Frustration: Ignoring or dismissing “felt needs” leads to increased frustration and conflict.
In various contexts, such as business, education, or personal relationships, acknowledging and addressing “felt needs” can lead to more effective communication, increased satisfaction, and stronger relationships/partnership.
1.1.2 Suppressing “Felt Needs”
Psychologists stated that suppressing “felt needs” can be damaging because it leads to:
- Increased Frustration: Unaddressed “felt needs” simmers beneath the surface, causing growing resentment and frustration.
- Decreased Trust: When People feel their “felt needs” are being ignored/dismissed, they lose trust in the Individual/organization/system.
- Reduced Motivation: Unmet “felt needs” demotivates Individuals, leading to decreased productivity, engagement, and overall well-being.
- Escalating Conflicts: Ignoring or suppressing “felt needs” causes conflicts to escalate, potentially leading to more severe consequences.
- Negative impact on Mental Health: Chronic suppression of “felt needs” contributes to anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues.
By acknowledging and addressing “felt needs,” Individuals/Organizations create a more supportive and inclusive environment that fosters growth, trust, and well-being.
1.2 Psalms 13
could also be called “How-Long Psalm.” The cry “how long” is mentioned four times. Psalm 13 is the Personal and Poignant (Moving) Cry. Its initial mood is one of tedious frustration and strained patience. Expressed in this brief Psalm are the deepest longings of a troubled soul.
David laid in bed with only his thought to wrestle with, and the lack of spiritual victory in his life, at this moment, led him to believe that his Enemy gloated in his experience (Psalm 13:2b). This is the experience of God’s Silence.
- Not the self-imposed exile of un-confessed sin.
- Not simply the feeling of the lack of Guidance.
- Not even the experience of waiting months or even years before seeing the specific Prayer answered.
David feels better during the day but at night, he wrestles with his thoughts, God’s Silence is real; it aches, and sleep comes hard. It feels like a vast sorrow with no cause, a deep fear of an unknown threat – Psalm 13:2a “How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart daily?”
- David is reduced almost to utter despair as he was undergoing lengthened persecution of trouble (Psalm 13:2b) – it seems that the Divine countenance has been turned away from him – Psalm 13:1 “How long, O LORD? Will You forget me forever? How long will You hide Your face from me?”
- It seems to him (David) that God has altogether forgotten him. He is in extreme perplexity and distress in and raises the cry – Psalm 13:2 “How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart daily? How long will my enemy be exalted over me?
David Overcomes his despair by looking to God – In Psalm 13:3-4, David passes “From Protest to Prayer; and in Psalm 13:5-6 David Proceeds “From Prayer to Praise, having (apparently) through his Prayer received an Assurance of God’s Help. The tone of the Psalm 13 suits the time when he was “hunted in the wilderness and mountains,” by King Saul (1Samuel chapters 24 & 26).
1.2.1 Forsaken?
Psalm 13:1a (KJV) “How long will You forget me, O LORD, forever?” – The four times David’s repeated cry: “How long?” of Psalm 13:1-2, shows the depth of David’s feeling. David feels God has forgotten – abandoned him? No, God, in His Silence, is drawing David to Himself. However, because David does not understand, the experience of God’s Silence, he (David) feels that God is far from his life.
- Psalm 13:1a “How long will You forget me, O LORD? Forever?”
- Psalm 13:1b “How long will You hide Your face from me?”
- Psalm 13:2a “How long shall I take counsel in my soul, having sorrow in my heart daily?”
- Psalm 13:2b “How long shall mind Enemy be exalted over me?”
It betokens very intense desire for deliverance and great anguish of heart. The deep cry of “how long” suggests the deep searching of heart. “How-long” does not indicate hopeless despair but heart-agonising desire. God seems delays are designed to test the reality of our Faith. David’s “how long” poignant (moving) enough in itself is.
W. Wilson writes: “Let everyone, then, who may be tempted to use the complaints of Psalm13, assure his heart that God does not forget His People, help will come at last, and, in the meantime, all things shall work together for good to them that love Him.”
Notice the increased force of the cry as it is put into Poetic Form. David repeats his cry four times: “How long?” Certainly, the thrust of David’s Lament is communicated with his first utterance, “How long will You forget me O LORD forever?” (Psalm 13:1a). But the full force of David’s distress comes only through his repeated cries of anguish of, “how long,” which spell out his despair.
- David, even in his despair, recognises his ongoing relationship with his God.
- It is only God’s Presence that his (David’s) deepest despair can be dealt with.
- David calls God by the Name: “Yahweh (O LORD), answer me.”
- David does not embellish his cry to the LORD with flattery.
- It is enough to reaffirm the Covenantal Context between God and His People when God revealed to Moses that His Name is Yahweh, meaning “I AM the One who is present to you and available” (Exodus 3:13-15).
- God said that He is David’s God; now David responds, accepting that fact as his starting point.
- David does not shy away from direct address; neither does he address God as a Stranger. He comes to Him in Faith, as is appropriate for the Child of God.
Philip Yancey – This is the same question reflected in the Title of Philip Yancey’s excellent book: “Where is God when it Hurts?” The experience of God’s Silence is not unique to us. Others – Giants of the Faith – have stood here before us. And so, the first step to take in dealing with the experience is to acknowledge it (Philip Yancey, “Where is God When It Hurts?” Grand Rapids, Michigan: Zondervan, 1977). At that time, I had never heard anyone talk about the experiencing the feeling God’s Silence. But as I read the Bible – especially Psalms – I am convinced that it is not uncommon for Christians to pass through such experience.
1.2.2 Hopelessness?
Psalm 13:1b (KJV) “How long will You hide Your face from me?” – When David complaints that God “Hides His Face,” the meaning of the phrase is that He (God) “Withdraws His Favour.”
- David uses carefully chosen language to express his distress. His words are used for their symbolism and force. David’s words are also part of the Poetry.
- The Language is not meant to be the scientific description of David’s Predicament but is selected to convey the situation that he experienced and felt it. “Forget” and “Hide Your face,” both have to do with the seeming absence of God’s Presence and help in his (David’s) time of distress.
- David longs for intimate Fellowship with his God (Psalms 11:7; Psalm 17:15). The experience of God’s Presence is far from David’s life. His initial mood is one of tedious frustration and strained patience.
Jesus words on the Cross, “My God, My God, why has You forsaken Me?” (Mark 15:34; Psalm 22:1). David has no illusion that he will be able to pull himself up by his own bootstraps. Nor is there a turning inward to find God’s Peace in Meditation. Rather, David brings his predicament to God.
Dieterich Bonhoeffer, in his brief meditation on the Psalms, states: “There is in the Psalms no quick and easy resignation to suffering. There is always struggles, anxiety, doubt…..But even in the deepest hopelessness God alone remains the one address.” It is significant that these Comments were first published in 1940 during Bonhoeffer’s Church’s Persecution by Hitler. They were also written in the General Context of Bonhoeffer’s decision to remain in Germany and be with his People in their time of Anguish and Suffering, even if it meant his imprisonment and murder by Hitler, which he did. Bonhoeffer had learned his Lesson well from the Psalms and his Life of Prayer remained constant throughout his ordeal. He observed that “serious illness” and “severe loneliness” before God and men, threats, persecution, imprisonment, and whatever conceivable peril there is on earth are known by the Psalms.
1.2.3 Grief and Hurt?
Psalm 13:2 (KJV) “How long shall I take Counsel (Pain) in my soul.” – Tossing on a sea of doubt and perplexity, David forms Plan, but to no Purpose. He seeks to find the way of escape from his difficulties but cannot discover one.
Another Observation on Psalm 13:1-2 will assist the Reader of Psalm 13. The RSV, in its translation of Psalm 13:2, has adopted the Syriac variant “Pain” instead of the difficult Hebraic term meaning “Counsel.” The real “Pain” (Hurt) of it is Personal, if we may judge from David’s Constant Longing to “behold God’s Face” (Psalms 11:7; Psalm 17:15; Psalm 27:4, 8; Psalm 34:5).
The same sense of the Friendship that has clouded over is hauntingly expressed in Job 29:1; Job 30:20 and Psalm 22:1. It is turmoil of thought (Psalm 77:3-6) rather than the dull ache of dejection. But “counsel” seems preferable. Given God’s “Absence,” the Psalmist has had to hold Counsel with himself, a fact which has caused him inner turmoil and sorrow.
- French Proverb: “Sickness and evils come on horseback and go away on foot.”
- Walter Brueggemann observes: “A study of the lament may be a corrective for some religion in the Church which wishes to withdraw from life as it really is, to pretence and romance in the unreal world of heavenly and holy things. The lament (those Psalms of complaint) makes clear that faith and worship deal with and are shaped by life as it comes to us.”
- We should understand that life includes both unpleasant and good, loneliness as well as fellow disease along with health, anxiety as well as peace, sorrow intermingled with joy. The life of the Christian is not all sweetness and light; it never has been, as Psalm 13 attests.
Life need not be represented to God in rosy hues that do not exist. We need not be Pollyanna. David, of Psalm 13 is able in the end to Praise the LORD, but only after moving from grief to joy. Along the way David of Psalm 13 expresses real agony. We need not whitewash evil and suffering. It is when Faith is recognised as being in crisis that it can be reaffirmed and strengthened. It is then that real joy can be experienced.
C.S Lewis married late in life, and after just a couple of years his wife, named “JOY,” died of cancer. Her death plunged Lewis deep into grief, and during those days he kept a brutally honest record of his thoughts and feelings. That journal published under the Title “A Grief Observed,” records Lewis’s experience of God’s Silence. His claims upon you as an interruption, if you remember yourself and turn to Him with gratitude and praise, you will be – or so it feels – welcomed with open arms. But go to Him when your need is desperate, when all other help is vain, and what do you find? A door slammed in your face, and a sound of bolting and double bolting on the inside. After that Silence……Why is He so present a commander in our time of prosperity and so very absent a help in time of trouble? (C.S Lewis, A Grief Observed, New York: Batam, 1961, pp.4&5).
1.2.4 Defeat?

